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You should see about attending a demo day (factory sponsored) at a dealership or trying to get a demo ride, if not see what you can rent from Eagle Rider. It sounds like you are new to Harley, be sensible, do not make an emotional purchase. Figure out exactly which model you want, and take your time looking for it.
Are you and your wife going to ride two up for long trips? Are you both physically big people? Do you fit on the V-Rod together? What is your riding style? Do you plan on doing group rides? What is your budget? There are a ton of great garage queens in the classified section of this website, some with aftermarket stuff that can be had for a song.
If you ask the same question on the the general HD, they would tell you to get a sportster instead of a V-Rod. Ther other HD's hold their value better than a V-Rod.
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The V-Rod is categoriacally the best Harley Davidson ever made. Look at the classifieds here first then go to chopperexchange.com, pick up a low mileage used one instead of new and enjoy. Seriously the only consideration you should have is you and your wifes physical size. The bike is just to small for a 350lb dude with a 250lb ol'lady.
Good Luck!